Valentine's day is coming, a lot of people start talking about Valentine- For those who have couple, they will discuss about where to celebrate/ what to buy for him/her/ what to do on that day, etc. And for those who are single, they wish to have someone special to celebrate on Valentine's day, a someone special that could give him/ her a warm feeling on the day, maybe after the lovely day they could turn to be couple.
At the other side, there are certain group of people who are not celebrating Valentine, because they think Valentine's day is nothing special to celebrate, Valentine's day is a waste of time & money, Velentine's day sucks! Valentine's day is not my culture. Who cares about the culture? We just want to celebrate the LOVELY day ~
Some people even think that ->
" we are in love everyday, everyday is our Valentine's day"..Oops......it's so boring! Why? Can I know how many times u celebrate an occasion in a year? Probably 3-4 times a year, why is so difficult to spend a lil time with your love one or surprise your love one on these special occasions? Human being, people tend to live in an ordinary life, sometimes we could make a change, to light up the dull life with surprises~ to gain back the sparks in the relationship by adding spice!
2 days ago, I chit-chat with my colleagues during lunch time, I have a very good colleague who has been married for 15 years this year, he was so proud to tell us about how good is his wife, a down to earth type of woman. And surpringly he never bought her a gift after they got married,
oh my~ I can't accept this~ Because he told us that his wife never requested all these things in this 15 years. I have to admit that sometimes guys are a lil dumb in dealing with girly things, they never thought about women love surprises, she never requested but it doesn't mean she doesn't like surprises. We suggested him to make a change this year during their anniversary, we asked him to buy a gift to his wife, but he seemed reluctant to give a try. :-/
Guys and girls are the same- we both love surprises!! This is called human being~ Always remember to give and take. So, let's cherish and celebrate with your love one on this coming Valentine's day! Make a change & make a move! It's nothing wrong to show the love and your appreciation to your love one on this special day. For those who have a love one, think about how grateful that you have a partner to celebrate this lovely special day, better than those who are single and wishing that the someone special to appear in their life.